My inner labia is wayyyy smaller than my outer and wonder if this is why no one ever went down on me?
Feb/105
This is such an embarrassing topic, but I really need to discuss because I’ve developed a complex!!! I want to hear from other women and men (or women?) who’ve been down on lots of women lol
I am 20, had 3 boyfriends and 2 guys I made out with and I’ve become SOOO self conscience down there and I get more as none of my boyfriends ever went down on me.
Now I know there are many men that are repulsed at the idea of going down on a woman because they fear it might smell or taste bad BUT IT DOESN’T! I’m super clean ~ I even shower or wash and shave down there before a date. Never had an STD or infection. I got brazilians. I wear sexy underwear. I’ve looked for flaws in the mirror and I just can’t find anything except my weird size. Never have any of my boyfriends gone down there!!!!
I have really small inner labia and small clitoris, but my outer lips are thick. Nothing sticks out at all. It’s like all hidden with my outer lips. Why is this such a bad thing though?? I never thought my vagina was weird, I used to feel really confident but as no one ever goes down on me I have been getting more and more self conscience and wondering what about me is such a turn off? I’ve searched to see if I was weirdly colored or symmetrical, but I’m pink and even which is good right? I’ve started comparing myself to women in like porn and mine is nothing like their labias they have the protruding inner lips and practically non existent outter lips – so if this is what men find sexy they must be weirded out by the site of mine??
I don’t know how to be sexier or more attractive down there. It gets absolutely NO attention and I’m thinking I would have to get labiaplasty or something. I spend so much time and effort like I was even getting brazilian waxes for my last boyfriend of 1 year and thats because he said he likes to play with a smooth and hairless P* but he never played with mine and now I’m thinking I should probably never take my underwear off because what is the point??
I know supposedly women with longer labias are feeling abnormals but they are more common and if you look at porn all the women have long labias!!! If it’s in porn that means it is what men come to expect!!
For men: Is it a burden if a girl’s labia isn’t sticking past her outer lips? Are you surprised or turned off? Does it gross you out to have to spread her lips to seen the inner and clit?? Does this stop you from going down on a woman also?
Women: does any other women have small/barely existent labia? Do you feel self conscience? Or do you think it is a good thing? Do guys react to it any way?
